Can Couples Receive Care Together at Home?

When one partner begins to need more support, couples can find themselves wondering what this means for the life they have always shared. At Caremark Kingston, we understand how important it can be for couples to receive care and remain together at home. In this blog, we look at how care can support one or both partners while helping them maintain their routines, independence and relationship.
The Routines That Belong to You
After decades together, couples develop their own way of doing things.
They know who sits on which side of the sofa, how the other likes their tea, who gets up first and which television programme simply cannot be missed.
When one person begins to need more care, those everyday routines still matter. For couples living in Kingston upon Thames and the surrounding areas, receiving care at home can provide support without unnecessarily changing the life they have built together.
When a Partner Becomes a Carer
Changes often happen gradually.
One partner may start helping the other get dressed, preparing medication, assisting with mobility or taking responsibility for more household tasks.
At first, it may simply feel like looking after the person you love. But as someone’s needs increase, a husband, wife or partner can find themselves taking on more caring responsibilities without ever really making that decision.
Having additional support at home can help reduce some of that responsibility.

Helping Couples Stay Partners
Introducing professional care can help restore some balance.
Instead of every day revolving around care tasks, a Care Assistant can provide appropriate support while the couple continue spending time together as partners.
That could mean enjoying breakfast together without one person worrying about everything that needs doing afterwards. It might simply mean having more time and energy to enjoy an afternoon together.
At Caremark Kingston, the aim is to provide support around established routines rather than expecting couples to change the way they live to accommodate care.
What if Both People Need Help?
Couples do not necessarily develop care needs at the same time or require the same type of support.
One person may need help with personal care while their partner only needs assistance with certain everyday tasks. In other circumstances, both may require more substantial support.
Care should therefore be based on each person individually. Their needs, abilities, preferences and routines can all be considered when planning the right level of support.
This allows couples to receive the help they need while continuing to share their home and everyday life.
Remaining in Familiar Surroundings
For many couples, home represents a life they have built together.
Their photographs, furniture, neighbours, garden and everyday routines all form part of that shared history.
Receiving appropriate support at home can help couples remain in familiar surroundings rather than assuming that increasing care needs must automatically mean a major change.
For people across Kingston upon Thames and the surrounding areas, Caremark Kingston can provide care designed around what matters to each person and how they want to live.
Care for Couples in Kingston and the Surrounding Areas
At Caremark Kingston, we support people to continue living safely and comfortably in their own homes.
For couples, that support can look different in every household. One partner may need help with personal care, medication or mobility, while the other may need little or no support. Where both people have care needs, their individual requirements can be considered while allowing them to continue sharing their home and familiar routines.
Our Care Assistants provide support around the way a couple already lives, rather than expecting their life to fit around care.
Because needing additional support shouldn’t mean one person stops being a husband, wife or partner and simply becomes a carer. With the right help at home, couples can have more time and energy to simply be together.